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Happy Halloween!

BOO!  Hope you are enjoying your scary day. :) We are enjoying a very pleasant day here in the Midwest. School went very well (always a good thing for a Friday!), and we are headed to Trunk or Treating this evening! Too fun. My kids are dressing as an angel, giraffe and Scooby Doo. And in case you don't see me today, here is what I have on:

I'm looking forward to a fun weekend of early birthday shopping (for me!), dinner with family, church, working outside in the yard, and getting some inside chores done as well. That, and catching up on some reading as well! (And trying not to swipe candy from our kids' buckets! Oh come on - you know you do it, too!!)

Hope you have a great weekend wherever you are! What are your plans for the Halloween weekend??

Catching Up!

Hello friends! I have been busy lately, but all has been well. We are just plugging away with school, church, work, and life in general! The weather here is getting colder - my favorite time of year! I love leaves, cozy sweatshirts, hayrides, and everything associated with fall!

I haven't posted about school in awhile, so I thought I'd post a short update of our year so far. I will also begin catching up with the Homeschool Memoirs posts again soon! I've been so busy homeschooling that I haven't posted about homeschooling. :)

We've really had a great year so far this year, and we are already over 1/4 of the way done for the year! We have finished studying North America and deserts, and have moved on to South America and rain forests. It's been fun!We're also plugging away with math, language arts, science, Bible, music, & more. The kids have done awesome at Bible quizzing this year, and we just registered for Upward Basketball (Quinn) and Cheerleading (Riley), which will begin soon.

We've studied: latitudes, longitudes, banyan trees, buttresses, multiplication, punctuation, direct quotations, and capitalization. We've made sand art, cakes out of globes, and forest canopies, as well as had a Mexican fiesta and gone on field trips!

Brad and I enjoyed a weekend away this weekend on a marriage retreat. It was a great time away to focus on our relationship and each other. Always needed when lives are busy! Sarah Palin was in town over the weekend, but we didn't go to the rally as it wouldn't have made for a very romantic evening. :)

I would love to post photos, but I am having difficulty with Typepad uploading my photos....argghh! I hope to have it working soon!

Value Voters

I received this video today from AFA (American Family Association) and thought it was worth passing on...

Vote '08

I had the opportunity to go to a Sarah Palin rally on Friday and jumped on it! Brad was willing to handle the kids & our volunteer obligation Friday night (church movie night), and he strongly encouraged me to go. Thanks, babe - you rock!

I have wanted the chance to go to a political rally in the past, but didn't want to see Obama or his wife here in town....no thanks! So when I heard Sarah Palin would be in Noblesville, less than two hours from my home, I decided to go! I picked up my tickets from Republican headquarters the first morning they were available, and it's a good thing I did. They ran out shortly thereafter!

I asked some friends to join me, so there were four of us gals (good friends & fellow homeschool moms) who headed down on Friday afternoon. We left before 1pm, stopped for a quick lunch, and were in Noblesville at Verizon Music Center by about 2:30. (The rally was scheduled to begin at 4:30.) Traffic was great, but it was crowded when we got there. (Side note: Verizon used to be called "Deer Creek," and the last time I was there was to see a Hootie & The Blowfish concert - years ago!! And back when Noblesville was still very rural!) 

We stood in a long line for over an hour to get in & through security.....everyone was wearing cool political shirts and you could also buy buttons, bumper stickers, shirts, etc., while standing in line. We made it through security with only one of us having to be scanned with the wand (way to go, Rikki!). We found great seats in the front half, sat down, and waited for it to begin.

After a little while, I decided to go closer to get some pictures and realized we could stand right in front at the rail! I called one of the gals (yes, from a distance of only 30 yards or so - yay for cell phones!) as I saved us a spot and they hurried down to join us. We had a great spot to see Gov. Palin come out & speak. Lieutenant Governor Becky Skillman spoke and country singer Aaron Tippin got the crowd fired up before she Gov. Palin came out.

She spoke about lower taxes, less government control, and restoring our country. She was a great speaker & certainly had everyone fired up! She also quoted John McCain's famous line from the debate this week - "If Obama had wanted to run against George Bush, he should have run four years ago!" I certainly think she is tough enough to be the next VP. I wouldn't want to be on her bad side.

After she spoke, she came out to the crowd for awhile and we had the chance to shake her hand, talk to her, and have her sign our tickets.

(More photos to come soon!)

Why am I supporting McCain/Palin in the election this year? Because I strongly believe in less government and more personal responsibility. I am pro-life and pro-one-man-one-woman marriage. I don't believe socialism is a way to make our country strong enough to fight other countries. I believe in clinging to God, unlike other candidates.  :) I believe in change and hope - through a leader who has experience and knowledge to get us there.

Book Giveaway Winner!

Congrats to Kay! She left this comment on day 10 of my Saving Smart! series:

I have truly enjoyed reading your money saving tips! I came across your blog via 2p's and it couldn't have come at a better time in our life. As for my favorite tip, day 8 and Fridays to pass it on to the kids would have to be it.....although none of them were bad :)

I used this site and it randomly chose #4, so comment #4 wins! Kay, email me your address as well as your choice of which book you would like to receive, and it will be on its way to you!

Thanks again for all of the positive feedback on this series! Happy saving!

Saving Smart! Series: Day Ten

Well, friends, this marks the end of my Saving Smart! series. I'm glad so many of you have liked it and thank you for all the feedback! To mark the end of the series, I am giving a away a free book! Simply leave a comment (on this post) letting me know which day's tips you most enjoyed, and you will be entered to win your choice of either:

 

or or   

(And these aren't used from my personal collection - yours will come straight from Amazon just for you!!)  :)  I will draw a winner from all comments posted by the end of Wednesday (October 15th). If you win and already have the books or aren't interested in them, you can bless someone else by passing it on to a friend!

And now for my last tip of the series! Today's tip is all about passing it on. Passing it on to your kids, of course! If you have had financial troubles, break the cycle and teach your kids wisely about money so that they do not also struggle!

• Teach them how to give, save, & spend wisely.
  •  Let them have their own piggy bank or bank account and make sure they understand how much to save, spend or give.
• Teach them how checks, credit cards and debit cards work.
  •  Make sure they understand that when mommy takes money out of the ATM, it's not just some money machine that freely gives to everyone!
• Teach them how to use coupons.
  •  Give your kids the coupons to hold as you shop and ask them what the new price of an item will be once the coupon is applied. Show them the total savings at the end of the shopping trip on the receipt!
• Give your kids an idea of how much money your family earns.
  •  ie: "To pay for these new jeans, daddy would need to work for two hours."
• Teach them how to budget their money wisely.
  • This is especially true if you have kids in middle school or high school who have more expenses.
• Let your kids choose where they want to give their money so you can truly know their heart!
  • If they want to help animals, let them. If they choose to give to a needy child at school, let them. If they want to save to buy a new bike for a poor child down the street, let them!  

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This is Part Ten of my Saving Smart! series. Be sure to stop in each day from
October 1st through October 10th for more money saving tips and advice.
For specific money saving questions, please email me.

"For the love of money is a root of all kinds of evil. Some people, eager for money, have wandered from the faith and pierced themselves with many griefs."  1 Timothy 6:10

Saving Smart! Series: Day Nine

Today I want to discuss humility and savings. Not an easy topic, I know. Humility is defined as: "the condition of being humble, showing lowliness, meekness, or submissiveness." Now, I don't know about you, but it is hard to be meek and submissive!

Often times, those who are struggling financially are not going to let you know about it. Even your closest friends may not have told you about their struggles. Or perhaps you are the one struggling, but are too proud to let others know of your struggles. Humility is discussed often in the Bible, and the humbled WILL be rewarded. One of my favorite verses on humility comes from Proverbs (where else?):  "When pride comes, then comes disgrace, but with humility comes wisdom." (Proverbs 11:2)

If you are struggling financially, please do not be too proud to ask for help. You will likely have a chance to "pass it on" when things are looking better for you financially. So many people are eager to help others; often times, they just don't know who needs help and how to give help. Two of my money-saving tips involving humility are:

• Be willing to accept hand-me-downs and donations.
  • Let others bless you!! Everyone needs help occasionally. We have been blessed with many hand-me-down items (furniture, kids' clothes, etc.) over the years and now enjoy passing on our things as we are able!
• Be willing to trade & barter.
  • Need someone to babysit your kids but short on money? Ask a friend to do it for you in exchange for a home-cooked meal for her family.
  • Teach piano? Offer to teach a friends' children in exchange for her help cleaning your home.
  • Have a handy husband?  Have him trade his help with a friend in exchange for help building something (if he's not a builder).
  • You can also trade your work for free items (Know computers? Offer to help an organization with their needs in exchange for something free from them.)
  • There are lots of things you are good at that you could swap with a friend to save you both money!

I hope today that if you are in need, you will be willing to humble yourself and ask for help. And if you are fortunate enough to not be in need right now, look for ways you can be a financial blessing to others who are struggling!

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This is Part Nine of my Saving Smart! series. Be sure to stop in each day from
October 1st through October 10th for more money saving tips and advice.
For specific money saving questions, please email me.

"For we brought nothing into the world, and we can take nothing out of it. But if we have food and clothing, we will be content with that. People who want to get rich fall into temptation and a trap and into many foolish and harmful desires that plunge men into ruin and destruction." 1 Timothy 6: 7-9

Saving Smart! Series: Day Eight

How is your budget going? Are you staying on track with your spending? One of the things that has helped us greatly to live within our means for the past ten years is using cash only (and occasionally our debit card).

We were first introduced to the "envelope system" by Larry Burkett (of Crown), though Dave Ramsey also recommends it. We pay for nearly all of our things (except items like utilities, mortgage, etc.) using cash. It's simple! It also helps keep us from overspending.

We use the envelope system - and have for years - and here's how it works: You place cash in each of your spending envelopes (budget categories) at the beginning of the month (ie: $500 in groceries, $20 in gifts, etc.) and when the money runs out, you stop spending!

On the rare occasion that we use our debit card (for example, at the gas station when precious kids are in the car!), we simply take the money out of its envelope later and deposit it back into our checking account. We also have been known to take money from one envelope and move it to another, but again - our budget stays the same as at the end of the month,;we have still only spent the alloted amount (just perhaps in different categories).

You can learn more about the envelope system here:
Crown Financial Ministries
Dave Ramsey

You can also purchase your envelope system here:
Crown Financial Ministries (we own and use this one and it holds up well!)
Dave Ramsey

Or, simply hit your local Target and pick up a generic expandable envelope for cheap! :)

If you decide to try cash only for a month or so, I would love to hear how it goes!

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This is Part Eight of my Saving Smart! series. Be sure to stop in each day from October 1st through October 10th for more money saving tips and advice.  For specific money saving questions, please email me.



"Suppose one of you wants to build a tower. Will he not first sit down and estimate the cost to see if he has enough money to complete it? For if he lays the foundation and is not able to finish it, everyone who sees it will ridicule him, saying, 'This fellow began to build and was not able to finish.”  
Luke 14: 28

Saving Smart! Series: Day Seven

We're into day seven already & I've heard from so many of you that you are enjoying this series! Thanks to those of you who have commented and/or sent me emails. I'm glad to see you like it! :)  What other topics would YOU like to see addressed? Please leave me a comment & let me know what you would like to know more about. If you will also help spread the word about my series, I would be grateful! Thanks to those of you who have also put links on your blogs. 

Today I've got ideas for low-cost family entertainment! 

• Try your local parks & rec department. Not only do they offer low-cost kids' activities, they also generally offer free family activities as well (music in the park, picnics, etc.)
  
• Help your kids have a lemonade stand! It's a great, all-day activity that will teach them the value of a dollar! (And yes, have them pay for the supplies from their earnings as well....great economics lesson!)
  
• Use your local library. We live in an area where we are fortunate enough to have fabulous libraries and library programs! Hopefully you have a nice library as well. Many children's and young adult's departments at libraries offer lots of free programs. If not, you can always check out free movies from your library.
  
• Just spend time at home together. Too often we think our kids need to go somewhere or that we need to spend money to have a good time. What our kids really need is for us to simply spend time together. Institute a "Family Fun Night" (thanks, mom & dad!) wheree family members take turns planning the nights' events (games, walks, dinner menu, craft project, etc.) Even the little ones can have a turn planning!
  
• Check out Lowe's and Home Depot's free kids' workshops.
  
  • Home Depot offers a FREE kids workshop on the first Saturday of the month at ALL of their locations! Click here for more details. The kids all get to build
    something on their own at each workshop. It is geared toward 5-12 year olds.
  • Lowe's offers a similar free workshop for kids of all ages on Saturdays. You can view the projects online and even sign up online also. Click here for more details.

The following activities are for my local friends as I am more aware of local activities. Hopefully you can find similar things in your area, too. :)

• In the summer, ride the trolley downtown for FREE. In the winter, ride the carousel at the mall for just a few dollars (pricey, but good for an occasional treat).
  
• First Sundays at the Art Museum.On the first Sunday of each month, enjoy free admission from 12pm-5pm to the art museum as well as craft projects, hands-on activities and more!
  
• Jefferson Pointe Toddler Tuesday.Tuesday mornings at 11am in the food court. Free, fun activities you can do with your toddler.
  
• Storytime at Anchor Room bookstore. Thursdays at 10am. FREE!

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This is Part Seven of my Saving Smart! series. Be sure to stop in each day from October 1st through October 10th for more money saving tips and advice.  For specific money saving questions, please email me.



"Suppose one of you wants to build a tower. Will he not first sit down and estimate the cost to see if he has enough money to complete it? For if he lays the foundation and is not able to finish it, everyone who sees it will ridicule him, saying, 'This fellow began to build and was not able to finish.”  
Luke 14: 28

Saving Smart! Series: Day Six

Today's tips aren't exactly ways to save money now, but they WILL save your family money! And face it, now that we are grown ups, we need to be responsible! :) So start your week off right and if you haven't done these steps already, make plans to do so this week!

• Write a will. It's not morbid; it's necessary.It is one of the best ways you can take care of your family, especially if you have children. Don't think that if you don't have much money or many assets that you don't need one - you still do! Don't think it's something you can wait until you are 50 to do. It's simple to write a will, and relatively inexpensive considering how important it is!
  
• Get life insurance. Dave Ramsey recommends life insurance equal to 8-10 times your salary. Other professionals recommend six times your salary. Shop around for great rates on term life insurance & find a great rate. Even if you are a stay-at-home-mom, you should have life insurance on yourself. If your husband is the sole provider and you pass away, he will still need to take care of all of the services you take care of (and really, we're worth at least a million dollars, right?!).

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This is Part Six of my Saving Smart! series. Be sure to stop in each day from
October 1st through October 10th for more money saving tips and advice.
For specific money saving questions, please email me.

"For the love of money is a root of all kinds of evil. Some people, eager for money, have wandered from the faith and pierced themselves with many griefs."  1 Timothy 6:10